What daily habit do you do that improves your quality of life?
1. Spending time with the Lord in the mornings by reading His Word and praying.
2. Having routines, especially when it comes to cleaning. There are days when life becomes chaotic unexpectedly and disruptions happen. With me having Inattentive ADHD my routines are a godsend, it helps me to get back on track and keeps the clutter away.
Making an enormous mess, I get overwhelmed easily.
What bothers you and why?
Making an enormous mess, I get overwhelmed easily.
Today, I decided to clean behind my nightstand. It needs it. My small room becomes cluttered quickly. In the middle of making progress, I discover that my floor lamp’s base broke.
I want to cry and scream. Just walk away from my mess. There’s not enough light. I’m frustrated and dealing with my emotions.
It’s okay that I am upset and feeling overwhelmed. This is part of the process of cleaning and organizing with a ADHD mind.
I will get this done tonight because I have a plan.
Currently, bedtime is between 11 pm to 12 am. I get up between 8am-9am.
I’m working on my nighttime routine, so I can get up early in the morning. Having ADD (inattentive ADHD) if I want to get up early then I need to go to bed early.
In the process to train my mind and body to wind down at night. I’m struggling with creating a new routine because sometimes I receive a burst of energy in the evening which wakes me up.
During the day, I’m trying to be more active but not too much where I need a nap. But enough that I will be tired wanting to go to bed at a decent hour for me.
My routine is to keep my home clutter-free. Click on the link to read more.
Are there things you try to practice daily to live a more sustainable lifestyle?
My routine is to keep my home clutter-free. Having ADHD, and clutter seems to follow me around. When I come home, sometimes plop my belongings in certain places to deal with later them.
My routines help me to get back on track when I am distracted or exhausted. Like putting things away, washing the dishes, and doing extra cleaning.
Routines bring structure and consistency into my life which my mind craves. Doing my chores regularly has given me extra time to write and enjoy other hobbies too. I don’t have to feel guilty because my chores are done.
One thing that gets on my nerves about being disabled. People try to fix my problems when I have explained why I can’t. Click on the link to read my blog.
One thing that gets on my nerves about being disabled. People try to fix my problems when I have explained why I can’t.
What do I mean “fixing my problems”?
When I have clearly stated why I can’t do something because of financial or health issues, then I receive unwanted advice on how to address the problem.
I understand that my life and my struggles are so different from able body people. Dealing with health and financial issues and fighting against a disease (rheumatoid arthritis) that wants to cripple me.
One reason why some people do this is because it is a coping mechanism. My life and their lives are radically different. Perhaps, they are comparing their lives to mine. There could be a lot of reasons why people are trying to fix my problems.
That I am a reminder that health is fragile, and that terrifies a lot of people.
I just want people to ask me if I need help, to respect my boundaries, and to ask questions. Also, realize that I am human with desires and needs, have a different perspective, and my life as meaning and value.
I will be discussing how I am creating a kitchen routine for my dishes to combat procrastination, which is caused by ADHD. To learn more click on the link below.